While there are many books that explain the adoption process, none of them explore with much depth the issues that adoptiove parents must deal with before making choices about what type of child and what type of adoption to pursue. Adopting after Inferitlity fills that gap remarkably well. Struggles with fertility and the grief and loss that accompanies it is often connected with adoption. It is important for people who have endured trauma and/or grief and loss due to infertility, recognize the value and importance of working through these losses prior to engaging in the adoption journey.